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To be Seen Known and Loved

8/23/2019

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To be Seen Known and Loved
The other day I was having a conversation with a friend as she stood by her two babies who were resting in a stroller. Her little boy was facing her and wanted to get his mama’s attention. As we talked, he made the cutest grunting noises until she turned and looked at him. The minute her eyes met his, his face lit up with the biggest smile, one of the most precious things I’ve ever seen. All it took from this little guy’s mom was a glance his way to completely satisfy his longing to be seen.

​That moment with my friend and her baby made me think about how we all have a similar desire to be seen, to be known, and loved. We may not go about trying to get attention the way my friend’s baby did. We’re far too sophisticated to make grunting noises at friends and family to draw their eyes toward us...or are we? I can think of some ways I’ve 
grunted to get attention.​
Maybe we don’t make actual guttural sounds, but I think we’ve all sought the gaze of others around us to help satisfy that longing to be seen, to be known, to be assured of their love. (How many times have you checked the likes on your last Facebook post?) All it takes is a quick look at social media to see how far some people will go to gain the attention of others. 
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Why do we crave to be seen, known, and loved? I think we can find the answer in the interchange between my friend and her son. God designed a baby to desire the gaze of his mother because it’s in his mother’s face that he finds the love of the one who knows and loves him no matter what. God has designed each one of us to desire the gaze of our Father, the One who knows us completely and loves us unconditionally. ​
King David was a man who had the attention of a kingdom of people who loved him. Yet, he struggled with moments of despair and feelings of desperate loneliness. We see this in Psalm 86, where he cried out in verses 1-5, 
“Bow down Your ear, O LORD, hear me; for I am poor and needy. Preserve my life, for I am holy; You are my God; save Your servant who trusts in You! Be merciful to me, O Lord, for I cry to You all day long. Rejoice the soul of Your servant, for to You, O Lord, I lift up my soul. For You, Lord, are good, and ready to forgive, and abundant in mercy to all those who call upon You.” ​
God answered David, allowing Him to understand His great love.

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In Psalm 139 David shared his realization of the way God sees, knows, and loves His children. In verses 1-3, he says,
“O LORD, You have searched me and known me. You know my sitting down and my rising up; You understand my thought afar off, You comprehend my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word on my tongue, but behold, O LORD, You know it altogether.” ​
Look at what God does:
  • He searches and knows us.
  • He understands us.
  • He is familiar with our ways 
  • He completely gets what we say. 
There is no person on earth who can know us as God does, see us like God does, or loves us as God does. Just look at how much He cares as David describes in Psalm 139:17-18,
“How precious are Your thoughts to me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand; when I awake, I am still with You.” ​
There is not a moment when He forgets us. He is never too busy to look our way. We never have to fear that He does not see or know us.

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And, there is no greater expression of love we could ever hope to receive than this:
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life” ( John 3:16).
So what do we do with this?
​If you do not know the love of God in this way, ask Him to help you understand His love through salvation. If you have never given your life to Him, confessing your sin and admitting your need for the Savior, Jesus, take that step in prayer today.  ​
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And then, on those days when you find yourself grunting to gain attention, remember, all you have to do is look to God, He has already set His gaze on you. Rest in His knowledge of who you are, how you feel, and what you need. When others don’t understand what you say, trust that God does. When you feel left out, concentrate on the love of God that brings you close to Him.

Take the following three truths and plant them deep in your heart:
  • God sees you.
  • God knows you. 
  • God loves you. ​​
I hope these truths bring a smile to your face just like the one on the face of my friend’s baby boy. ​
Stephanie
What does it mean to you to be seen, known, and loved by God?
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April link
8/23/2019 01:27:19 pm

What absolutely beautiful thoughts to focus on!! It is a powerful thing when we plant these truths in our heart because the enemy is always trying to make us feel abandoned. Knowing we can run to Jesus when we are hurt, just as a child runs to a parent to be comforted, helps us to continually depend on Him for our emotional wounds.

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Stephanie link
8/23/2019 02:49:40 pm

Yes! You are so right! Our enemy wants us to feel the lie of abandonment...I’m so thankful for the truth of God’s love!

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Rebecca Jones link
8/23/2019 04:38:52 pm

We can learn a lot from babies and children. Only God can know every detail while parents may love they only count fingers and toes, not stars, sand or hair.Now, that is love, and He pays attention, even when we are distracted.

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Stephanie link
8/30/2019 08:24:55 pm

Yes! How amazing that He knows every hair on our heads!

Blessings,
Stephanie

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