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Our Words Matter: What Do Careless Words Do?

2/26/2021

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Our Words Matter: What Do Careless Words Do?
Welcome to "Our Words Matter" a 5-part mini-series about using our words wisely and avoiding careless words. Last month we looked at Where Do Careless Words Come from? Today, we're looking at What Do Careless Words Do? Next month (the last Friday of the month) we will also look at:​​
  • How Do I Avoid Careless Words?
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​I hope you'll join us for "
Our Words Matter" because they do! ​

I’ve already touched a little on how wounding, careless words can be, but I think it’s important to really examine the deep hurt and damage they can cause. When we speak careless words we are often blissfully unaware of the havoc they create. But taking the time to consider the end result and consequences of our words can serve as a cautionary and preventive measure.
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As I mentioned in an earlier post, it was through experiencing these consequences as the recipient of careless words that God grabbed my attention about my own speech. Since I know firsthand the painful effects of such words, why would I ever want to be the cause of that for another person? ​
I have to ask myself these questions:
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  • ​Is it worth crushing another’s spirit just because I know I am right?

  • Is it worth straining or causing a divide in my relationships with others because I always speak my mind?

  • Is it worth making others think badly of someone because I just had to express my honest, off-handed critique?

  • Is it worth dishonoring someone in the name of being helpful (i.e. unsolicited advice or brash opinions)?

  • Is it worth making others feel insignificant or silenced because I always have to dominate the conversation?
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  • Is it worth potentially humiliating others because what I have to say is so funny or clever?​
This is by no means a comprehensive list of the damage our careless, thoughtless, and insensitive words can do, but it is a start.

It is wise to consider the outcome of our words before we are in a situation to speak. This is one of the first steps toward making a change in the way we speak and avoiding careless talk.
Elisabeth

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Knowing what careless words can do, how do you avoiding careless talk?
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Jeanne Takenaka link
3/2/2021 03:37:40 am

Words . . . can give life or they can devastate. I appreciate your questions to help me evaluate the words I speak. I seek to speak words that edify others, but sometimes, I blow it. "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable, to You, O Lord, my Rock and Redeemer." ~Psalm 19:14

This verse has helped me to evaluate my words. Great post!

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Richella J Parham link
3/4/2021 09:34:33 am

You're so right! Our words really do matter. Thanks for the encouragement to stop and think--and especially thanks for the questions to ask myself before I speak. So helpful!

Thanks so much for joining the Grace at Home party at Imparting Grace. I'm featuring you this week!

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