Establishing TV Viewing Standards For Your Family

How much TV viewing time do you allow in your family each week? We talk in our Come and Gather: Family Time With God post that "...the average family watches over 20 hours of television a week." That's almost a whole day!

So, how much is too much, and how do you decide what is good to watch, questionable to watch, or "we are absolutely not watching that?"

I have friends on both sides of the fence. Some allow their kiddos to watch almost anything on television, while others don't allow theirs to watch television at all. I have found myself comfortably nestled somewhere in between.

There are three tests I like to use when establishing TV viewing standards in our home. There's the Reality Test, the Value Test, and finally, the Morality Test.

The Reality Test

Even in comedy, unrealistic plots and stereotyped characters often indicate a warped moral perspective. Programs that do not depict the painful consequences of wrong actions distort reality. Just as we should not spend our lives aimlessly associating with evil people and fools as it says in 1 Corinthians 15:33, we also should not invest valuable time watching immoral and frivolous television programming.

"Do not be deceived, bad company ruins good morals" (1 Corinthians 15:33).

Every family member should learn to be a critical viewer, ready to switch off junk productions that are done in poor taste. We all should be willing to explain our viewing choices to other family members.

The Value Test

Relaxation is a legitimate need, but some kinds of relaxation are better than others. It is for good reason that TV has been called the plug-in drug. Even recreational time should not be squandered. Can we justify the time we spend watching particular television programs, or movies, as compared to other more active forms of recreation—like reading, visiting with friends, playing a game, taking a walk, or working in the yard? Does the time we spend watching TV make us more productive and balanced people, or is it draining our vitality and undermining our creativity?

The Morality Test

We live in a fallen world. Consequently, all good art acknowledges the reality of evil. Art that ignores evil has no depth. ​The greatest writers and playwrights of the ages—people like Aeschylus, Shakespeare, Goethe, Eliot, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Melville—have always grappled with evil. 

​But they portrayed evil without glamorizing or sensationalizing it. Sometimes actors need to play roles portraying immorality. But a good program distinguishes between acting and exhibitionism. As the commercial networks, to boost ratings, promote more and more soft pornography, we should keep in mind the simple insight that fornication acted out by professional actors and recorded on film for public entertainment is still fornication. Human sexual intimacy is too precious to be prostituted by the media under the guise of realism or artistic freedom. Similarly, both the testimony of common sense and academic circles affirm that media violence, even when simulated, has the effect of desensitizing viewers, lowering their inhibitions, and creating an appetite to see more. Today’s media, like the circus, often exploits evil rather than exposing it, gaining viewers by inflaming their passions.​

If we regularly test our TV viewing by these three standards, Reality, Value, and Morality, we will probably find that it will be greatly reduced—or even eliminated altogether. Your family’s use of the media says a lot to your family and friends about its values, priorities, goals, and dreams.

How do you set TV viewing standards for your family?

Some contents of this post taken from Setting TV Viewing Standards by Radio Bible Class Ministries.