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5 Things You Can do Today to Raise Godly Children

3/12/2019

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Raising Godly Children
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​A key responsibility of parenting is the education of our children as we seek to raise them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. ​
"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." Ephesians 6:4

"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6
As parents, we are instructed by Scripture to train children in the way [they] should go. ​
God holds us personally accountable and we must never relinquish our responsibility, even though we may share it with someone outside the home. ​Consequently, if we do share that responsibility with someone outside the home, we should look for a school that works with, and not against, us in fulfilling that responsibility. To satisfy this mandate Scripturally, we need to understand that both the home and the school are measured by the same standards—the Bible.
"Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus." Philippians 2:5
Essential elements to help children grow in Christian maturity are to teach them how to study God's Word, apply its principles, and obey its truths in all of life's experiences. The focus of education should be to guide their lives in becoming more like Christ as they advance academically and grow physically.

To help our children receive the education that will best lead them to Christian maturity, we should model by example a Christian's response to the activities of life. The practice of following Biblical principles will strengthen family ties and enhance a child's journey to a dedicated life in Christ. And a dedicated life in Christ should be our goal.
Raising Godly Children
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5 Things You Can do Today to Raise Godly Children:

  1. Pray For and With Your Children Parents, pray without ceasing (I Thessalonians 5:17) for your children that they might grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (II Peter 3:18). Encourage your children to share their prayer requests, answered prayers, and praises during family prayer time. Provide them with a prayer journal. Check out the My Kid's Prayer Journal below. Guide your children to pray about all things. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." (Philippians 4:6). Let them witness the relationship of prayer in solving problems, giving strength in stressful times, teaching responsibility, and growing in Christian maturity. Avoid compromising family prayer time on the altar of convenience. Wow! Isn't that just such an easy trap to fall into! Share you own prayer life with your children. They need to witness the power of prayer in your life!
  2. Worship God Together Faithfully attend a local, Bible-believing church with your children and get involved in the work there. Attend services regularly and support the outreach and ministries of the church. Let your children experience the spiritual beauty of a genuine Christian home. At home, read God's Word and pray together as a family. Have regular devotions and prayer time. Teach your children to personally study the Bible and pray daily. This is how I, as a teen, discovered the basis for what I believe. You want your children to KNOW what they believe, why they believe it, and be able to back that belief up with biblical truths. I cannot tell you how important this will be to them as a young adult! 
  3. Discipline Biblically and With Love Discipline is a part of life which cannot be avoided— whether you are a child or adult. It's just part of life. Seek out opportunities to praise your children's positive actions. Comment on their good choices, wise decisions, or polite manners. Manners in particular, is something that is just completely lost in our society today! Include their personal activities on the family calendar. When a child misbehaves, correct him or her appropriately and reasonably, but never in anger. If discipline is needed, make certain that your child understands exactly what they did that requites correction. Be consistent! Be as consistent as possible and never keep records. Do for your children what the Lord does for us, and that is, discipline with love.
  4. Be Intentional About Quality Family Time No matter how busy life gets, regularly schedule family time. Take advantage of the opportunities to be together as a family. Trust me, the time will soon come, even though it may not seem like it now, when your children will be grown. Build memories now, while you can! And it doesn't have to be crazy expensive. It can be as simple as game night or a movie and popcorn at home. Or, as exciting as a campout or excursion to the local amusement park or zoo. Make lasting memories while you have the opportunity.
  5. Let Them Know They Have Your Full Support This begins with good communication. Build a relationship with the other adults in your children's lives who are also working to educate them. If they attend school or participate in sports outside the home, build a positive relationship with their teachers and coaches. It will benefit you, the teachers, coaches, and your children. Support the teachers and coaches as they help your children in the pursuit of Christian maturity and quality learning. Make every effort to attend school and athletic event, especially if your children are interested or involved. Your children will never forget your support in these areas. Use homework as an opportunity to share in your children's academic development. This will also help you keep up to date with their studies and academic progress.

5 Things You Can do Today
As we work together for the common goal of Christ-likeness, we will have the opportunity of observing our children's growth, little by little, into truly mature Christians who will do for their children what was done for them. 

​It takes years for an acorn
​to grow into a mighty oak. 
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As you embrace your God-given responsibility as a parent in the lives of your children, don't expect miracles over night, just progress.

The investment is worth the time
​because the dividends are eternal!

My Kid's Prayer Journal

One of the best ways of being intentional about showing your child the power of prayer is to provide him or her with a prayer journal. I know in my own life, when I'm able to see answers to prayer, I am more likely to realize it's power— and I am more likely to see the answers when I have journaled my prayers.

We love this My Kid's Prayer Journal! And you can't go wrong here, it's like $5.00 today on Amazon. Go get it! 

​My Kid's Prayer Journal 100 Days of Prayer & Praise is a children's prayer journal built to inspire conversation and prayer with God, and it is packed with goodness! It's the perfect tool for your child to build a better relationship with Christ! Start each day reciting the Lord's Prayer and then sit with your child as you go through the guided prompts to help cultivate their understanding of prayer and relationship with God. The journal is printed on high quality paper and has a beautifully designed cover with a matte finish. Grab one for your child or multiple for friends—it's the perfect gift!
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My Kid's Prayer Journal layout
My Kid's Prayer Journal inside

Whether you are a homeschool mom, Christian school mom or public school mom, what's the one piece of advice on raising Godly children in this Godless world you would give to moms like you?
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Michele Morin link
3/12/2019 09:28:58 am

Such good counsel here, and my husband and I, now that our kids are older and 3 out of 4 are out of the nest, are committing to more intentional prayer for them. When we say "it's the most important thing we can do for them," it's critical that we actually DO it!

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Patsy Burnette link
3/12/2019 09:34:07 am

Michele, you and I have a lot in common! 3 our of our 4 are out of the nest as well. The baby leaves next month. It's going to be a sad day. :( But a new chapter begins... And I totally agree, praying for them now is no less important than praying for them when they were part of the nest. I love my adult children. They are my closest friends, and I think that's just lovely. :)

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Hilary link
3/12/2019 09:48:54 am

I love this post so much! As a mom and a counselor, I would say my best advice is maintain open communication and if your child is struggling with that, encourage them to find godly mentors so they have a healthy adult to share their struggles with!

Hilary
www.blessedbyhislove.com

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Patsy Burnette link
3/12/2019 01:37:40 pm

Thank you Hilary! Communication is so important! And godly mentors too. I cannot even tell you how blessed we have been with godly mentors in the lives of our children. SO VERY THANKFUL FOR THEM!

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April link
3/12/2019 12:07:17 pm

You mentioned it in your 3rd point. Be CONSISTENT!! I can tell you that with my older 3 kids I was not good at this. I still have to work at it with the 2 I still have at home. Also walk what you teach. Leading by action and not just words is so very vital!! So many great points in this post.

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Patsy Burnette link
3/12/2019 01:42:13 pm

Thank you April! Consistency is so important. There was one of our four that the kids still joke about today. They say we spanked him every day. LOL I really don't think it was EVERY day, just most days. :( It's difficult to be constant, but it's so important! All I can say is DON'T GIVE UP!

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Sarah link
3/13/2019 09:39:37 am

I wholeheartedly agree. It is hard work to instill God's Word in our children, but so rewarding and joyful too. One of my favorite things to do with my little ones is memorize Scriptures with hand motions (that I make up on the fly). They think it's so fun too!

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Patsy Burnette link
3/14/2019 04:01:26 pm

That's a GREAT idea Sarah! I love the hand motion thing with Scripture. We do it with songs. Why not Scripture too?!

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Angela Johnson link
3/14/2019 11:12:45 am

This was great! I especially agree with getting to know your kids teachers and coaches. One thing I made known very early on, was that I was a part of my child's life and I cared about what went on. I do not think a few teachers were too happy about this, but I did not care. My child knows that I know what is going on and what they are struggling with, so we can help. Later on, this has been a blessing. I also recommend getting to know their friend's parents as well. I want to know who my children are spending time with and what their beliefs and values are. Pinning and sharing!

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Patsy Burnette link
3/14/2019 04:05:59 pm

Thanks for pinning and sharing Angela! Getting to know their friend's parents is a GREAT idea as well! Maybe the teachers that didn't approve of your involvement didn't understand because they did not have children of their own. I love to see parents who take the time to be a part of their child's life in the home and outside!

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Laura Thomas link
3/14/2019 11:48:01 am

Great post. Now that my kids have all left home, I'm so grateful we were able to give them a solid foundation in Christ. What a precious privilege we have as parents! Stopping by from #tuneinthursday

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Patsy Burnette link
3/14/2019 04:44:41 pm

I didn't realize what hard work it was Laura when we were in the thick of it. Now, looking back, I'm like how in the world did you ever survive? LOL Jesus <— that's the only way! I'm glad they're all grown and on their own. I love my adult children and we are blessed to have such a good relationship with them.

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Carolina link
3/14/2019 01:07:18 pm

We live in a world where school and extra curricular activities are a priority. Even though those things are not bad we are focusing of the wrong thing. Raising godly children should be our first priority. Wonderful advice here, thank you so much for sharing!

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Patsy Burnette link
3/14/2019 04:46:22 pm

I totally agree Carolina. We put too much emphasis on that sort of thing and too little on spiritual things.

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Carrie Anderson link
3/14/2019 03:51:44 pm

Thanks so much for this post full of tips on raising godly kids. I would add - teach them the good, solid reasons for the truthfulness of Christianity. That way they are not living on borrowed faith but their own. The Bible Project videos are a great place to start.

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Patsy Burnette link
3/14/2019 04:48:06 pm

YES! Carrie, that's great! Kids need to know WHAT they believe, and WHY! It's so important that they know the way and can back it up with Scripture!

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Tinashe Jaricha link
3/15/2019 10:00:42 am

This is very important and encouraging for me. I really need to carve out some consistent prayer time with my daughter. Being tired is not an excuse. I need to show and teach her how to pray. Thank you for the reminder😊

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Patsy Burnette link
3/15/2019 10:08:24 am

Yes Tinashe! And with all the super cute Bible journaling and prayer journals out there, especially with a daughter, this is so easy and even fun to do these days. So rewarding as well! Check out Faith Paper Shop in our sidebar. They have some super cute stuff!

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Mari link
3/15/2019 05:05:30 pm

Yes, it all requires intentionality. It won't just happen because we go to church. Thx! Mari

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Patsy Burnette link
3/16/2019 09:15:56 am

You're so right Mari! Sometimes we think we can just put them in a good school, take them to church every time the doors are open.... But it's really much more than that. It's us, being intentional, living a godly life with consistency that they can witness.

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Mary Hill link
3/18/2019 12:08:15 pm

Hi, I so enjoyed your post. I selected it as my favorite for the #LMMLinkup this past week. Thank you for joining us.

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Patsy Burnette link
3/19/2019 02:18:46 pm

Oh WoW, Mary! What an honor! Thank you so much! Send me a link please. :)

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Patsy Burnette link
3/19/2019 02:36:49 pm

Found the link Mary :) Thank you again!

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