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3 Ways to Love Like Jesus Loves

4/16/2021

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3 Ways to Love Like Jesus Loves
While passing each other at church, we exchange social niceties and generic smiles. During our workdays, we put on happy faces and interact professionally with both the kind and the difficult clients. When asked to serve, we obligingly give of our time, finances, and testimonies.
 
These scenarios make up a lot of our hours, days, and weeks. There’s nothing wrong with being tired after a long week and exchanging a smile and a “Fine, thank you,” with someone in the church hallway. There’s nothing wrong with maintaining a professional demeanor at work. There’s definitely nothing wrong with serving God with our available resources.

But sometimes, at the end of a long week, I find myself wondering if I’ve made any kind of a difference in my little circle of people.
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I am not an emotionally expressive person, so it’s hard for me to effusively declare my love and support for those around me. My way of showing love to others usually involves doing, buying, writing, or making things for them, but these things take time, money, and creative effort. I can only write so many letters, make so many crafts, and purchase so many gifts in one week or even one year.
That thought made a lightbulb glow brightly in my brain. So often I have become overwhelmed by the weight of how many people are around me. God loves each and every one of them, so I have to as well, right? How can my little introverted self possibly love all of them?
 
The simple answer is, I can’t. In a vague sense, I can grow in my love for all of the people God has created, but I cannot know and love each one of them on an individual level. Just as I am limited in my ability to make gifts, so am I limited in my ability to show love. Only God has an infinite capacity to love.
 
So, how am I supposed to love other people as Jesus loves them? Many books could be (and have been) written on Christ’s love, the first and foremost of which is the Bible itself. Here are just a few simple observations of Jesus’ love as portrayed in Scripture. These have helped me to learn what loving people means.

1. Jesus Loves Intentionally

Jesus didn’t stay in Heaven and wish there were a convenient way to show love to His people. He left His throne and His Father to become a man with all of the pain and hardship that comes along with humanity. He sacrificed everything to come to His people and provide a way for them to be saved. In Philippians, Paul uses Christ’s intentional sacrifice to instruct the believers at Philippi how to love each other:
"Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind, let each esteem other better than themselves. Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
 
Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, He humbled Himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross." Phil. 2:2-8
Jesus didn’t have to humble Himself, but He intentionally chose to make Himself a man and go to the people who needed Him. He sacrificed everything to provide salvation for His people. That is the definition of love.
 
We cannot sacrifice ourselves to provide salvation for others as Jesus did, but we can sacrifice our comfort, our security, and our time to purposefully reach out to those He has placed in our lives. True love does not happen by accident. Whether or not we realize it, we make little choices to notice someone, reach out to them, give our time to them, and open our hearts to them.
 
Sometimes this comes easily for us, as with friends and family we already know and love. Other times this is distinctly uncomfortable:
  • Listening to God’s leading me to sit next to the person in a church service who always seems to be alone.
  • Setting up a coffee date to fellowship with someone you don’t know that well.
  • Or paying a visit to neighbors you’ve lived next to for years but still haven’t met.

If God has placed a person within your radar or close to your home, showing love to them is a conscious choice that may take you out of your comfort zone, but it is the true way to follow Jesus’ own sacrificial love.

2. Jesus Loves Individually

God made each of us unique. No two people are going to receive love in the same way. Isaiah tells us:
"But now, O Lord, Thou art our Father; we are the clay, and Thou our Potter; and we are the work of Thy hand.” Isaiah 64:8
As a loving Creator, God sculpted each one of us. Isaiah and the Psalms both declare that God knew us and fashioned us to be unique individuals before we were even born. It’s part of the awe-inspiring detail and creativity of God’s creation. Our individual, distinct, God-imagined souls are what make us fashioned in His image. This gives us the ability to rebel, but it is also why Jesus came to give us the ability to be redeemed.
While Jesus was on earth, He displayed His personal knowledge of individuals by how He spoke with people. He knew the true heart’s desire of the rich young ruler, and, in love, He asked Him to give up His idol in order to have eternal life. Jesus’ love was so focused on each individual’s needs that He didn’t give a generic answer to the young ruler’s question. He was aware of the person He was talking to and what that person, specifically, needed to hear.
 
Unlike Jesus, we are not omniscient. We can’t look at the rich young rulers that come up to us and automatically know their hearts. For us, this aspect of Christ-like love will take work. To elevate love to a one-on-one level we must be willing to listen to and observe other people, enabling us to understand their personal struggles and appreciating their individual strengths.
 
Without this personal knowledge, we can accidentally offend, run roughshod over, or neglect people who have very specific needs. In the group of bus kids, we’re moving through the church doors, we won’t notice the feeling of abandonment in a little boy whose father has left him. In the youth group, we’ll be so busy dealing with the troublesome teenagers from unsaved homes that the well-behaved church kid who has honest questions about her faith and the Bible will feel overlooked and unsure about how to ask her questions.
Every group is made up of individuals. Individuals with unique personalities, pasts, temptations, and struggles. We can love people by getting to know those individualities that make each and every person a beautiful representation of God’s image on earth. People respond better to those who take the time to notice what they enjoy and what they aren’t comfortable with. They feel loved when others show interest in and remember these things.

3. Jesus Loves Inclusively

Jesus didn’t limit His love to likable people or people who were morally and spiritually upstanding. Often, in the church, we get a little self-righteous. After all, many of us don’t commit a lot of the sins that people out there in the world do, so we think we’re justified in turning up our noses just a little bit at those people. We’re allowed to have pet peeve sins that make us cringe, shudder, and tilt our chin up a little higher, right?
 
Wrong. Jesus didn’t shy away from the woman taken in adultery—He offered her forgiveness. Jesus didn’t shy away from the thief on the cross—He offered him a place in paradise. Jesus didn’t shy away from the woman who anointed His feet—He commended her love for Him.
 
Yet in the church, we definitely have pet peeve sins that we can’t seem to imagine God forgiving. Sexual sins and substance abuse tend to stand out on top. But if Jesus, the essence of holiness and godliness Himself, didn’t shy away from these people, what right have we to cringe away?
 
All people living in sin need the Savior. This is just as true if the very lifestyle they have chosen to live is a sin.
  • If we take one look at them and try to walk away as quickly as possible, who will reach them with the Gospel?
  • If we talk about them behind their backs, calling them names and laughing at their way of life, is it likely they’ll turn to the church in a crisis?
  • If we constantly preach at them about their wickedness without once listening to them and caring about their individual souls, will they believe we truly care about their eternal destiny?
As I realized in my light-bulb moment of self-reflection, I cannot love everyone. That is God’s job alone. But He has placed specific people in my life, and He has equipped me to love those people intentionally, individually, and inclusively. I just need to be willing to step outside of my comfort zone, willing to dig deeper to truly know and care for those individuals, and willing to love those whose lifestyles are openly sinful.
 
Regardless of our personalities, locations, and vocations, each one of us can effectively love the people around us. I’m praying that God will teach me to get over my own limitations and fears and instead rely on His power to open my heart to the individuals I interact with throughout my daily life. Are there specific people God has brought to your mind as you read this today? Let’s pray for each other to listen to the Holy Spirit’s prompting to go out and love those individual, God-created souls on purpose!
Cami
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Donna B Reidland link
4/16/2021 05:32:00 pm

What a beautiful reminder of how to better love those around us!

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Cami
4/16/2021 08:35:43 pm

Thank you, Donna!

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Theresa Boedeker link
4/16/2021 08:36:50 pm

This is so good and so convicting. No, we cannot love everyone. Not in our human state, but we can love those people placed in our path. And love them intentionally and well.

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Cami
4/17/2021 08:24:24 pm

Well said, Theresa!

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Leisa C. Fair
4/18/2021 04:29:18 pm

This is very well written and a subject that we should all welcome. When someone takes the time to love us, we appreciate it which should also encourage us to 'do unto others as we'd have done to us.' We need to be more Christ-like and love others unconditionally. I can't wait to see what you dig into next, Cami. Well said.

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Cami
4/18/2021 07:57:06 pm

Thank you, Leisa! Well stated. We respond to others spending intentional time to care for us. Learning how to do that for others is a great part of Christ-like love.

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Lisa notes link
4/20/2021 10:27:49 am

This hits home with me. I often feel this way about all the good causes out there. I feel like I should be doing so much more for each one, but I know it's impossible to do it all. But I can do something. That's what I hear you saying here. God gives each of us a sphere of influence and we need to be intentional about loving others in our circles. I'll be featuring your post at the Grace and Truth linkup at my blog this Friday.

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Cami
4/20/2021 09:24:24 pm

Thank you, Lisa! I love how you put that—it’s impossible to do it all, but we can do something. Thanks for sharing my post with your readers!

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Richella J Parham link
4/22/2021 09:22:03 am

Such a good post! Our church's mission statement is "to love people incredibly well, as Jesus did." Love the way you've summarized the ways Jesus loved.

Thanks so much for joining the Grace at Home party at Imparting Grace. I'm featuring you this week!

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Cami
4/22/2021 11:43:35 am

Sounds like a good church mission statement, Richella! Thank you for sharing!

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